Comments on: Unspoken http://www.carolynursabia.com/2009/10/unspoken/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=unspoken The Thoughts Inside Carolyn Ursabia's Head Sat, 04 Feb 2012 20:49:56 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Shahan http://www.carolynursabia.com/2009/10/unspoken/comment-page-1/#comment-106 Shahan Wed, 27 Jan 2010 22:12:26 +0000 http://www.carolynursabia.com/?p=256#comment-106 "It lets me finish a story, and consequently lets me share it." is the most practical phrase I've come across in your blog (so far), and "No, instead there was a definite end, just one of which I was not explicitly notified." is the funniest. I can't agree with your post more. Knowing the real reason used to concern me, but after a while, I got used to being care-free about them. If time isn't spent on it then it really isn't that much of a concern, or is it? The most memorable such moment was when a close high-school friend promised to come with me to get a tattoo. He disappeared a week before I was to get it and only spoke to me again more than 10 years later, after finding me on FB, asking whether I got the tattoo. I don't know why he remembered or wanted to know about it so long after the event, his interest in that past was uninteresting to me and so I let it be. “It lets me finish a story, and consequently lets me share it.” is the most practical phrase I’ve come across in your blog (so far), and “No, instead there was a definite end, just one of which I was not explicitly notified.” is the funniest.

I can’t agree with your post more. Knowing the real reason used to concern me, but after a while, I got used to being care-free about them. If time isn’t spent on it then it really isn’t that much of a concern, or is it? The most memorable such moment was when a close high-school friend promised to come with me to get a tattoo. He disappeared a week before I was to get it and only spoke to me again more than 10 years later, after finding me on FB, asking whether I got the tattoo. I don’t know why he remembered or wanted to know about it so long after the event, his interest in that past was uninteresting to me and so I let it be.

]]> By: Pretentious, Self-Righteous Essays » Blog Archive » Unresponsiveness http://www.carolynursabia.com/2009/10/unspoken/comment-page-1/#comment-101 Pretentious, Self-Righteous Essays » Blog Archive » Unresponsiveness Tue, 19 Jan 2010 16:28:03 +0000 http://www.carolynursabia.com/?p=256#comment-101 [...] Anyway, considering how I feel about poor punctuality, I suppose it isn’t a surprise, then, when I say that I feel similarly about  unresponsiveness. Although, I suppose, I do understand that there are other reasons, besides being irresponsible, why ... [...] [...] Anyway, considering how I feel about poor punctuality, I suppose it isn’t a surprise, then, when I say that I feel similarly about  unresponsiveness. Although, I suppose, I do understand that there are other reasons, besides being irresponsible, why … [...]

]]> By: Pretentious, Self-Righteous Essays » Blog Archive » Addendum http://www.carolynursabia.com/2009/10/unspoken/comment-page-1/#comment-100 Pretentious, Self-Righteous Essays » Blog Archive » Addendum Tue, 19 Jan 2010 16:25:10 +0000 http://www.carolynursabia.com/?p=256#comment-100 [...] now while typing to myself on this blog.  I just that feel these things should be obvious.  You should know that I can`t be concerned about what you think if I don’t respect you.  (And ... The subsequent frustration is worth avoiding, and the disappointment from having my time wasted, [...] [...] now while typing to myself on this blog.  I just that feel these things should be obvious.  You should know that I can`t be concerned about what you think if I don’t respect you.  (And … The subsequent frustration is worth avoiding, and the disappointment from having my time wasted, [...]

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